We Failed … Now What?

What Lions Can Teach Us About Failure, Healing, and Moving Forward

There are moments when the world feels fractured—when the gap between us seems too wide to cross. But often, beneath the tension, we’re not so different.

 

Most of us want the same things:

  • To live with purpose

  • Care for the people we love

  • Achieve meaningful goals

  • And maybe have some fun in-between

 

We start with good intentions. But fear, doubt, and stress have a way of creeping in—turning collaboration into competition, uncertainty into isolation.

 

And then… something breaks.

A project falls apart.

A partnership dissolves.

An outcome doesn’t match the effort.

 

We fail.

Now what?

Lick Your Wounds, Then Rise

If you’ve ever watched an animal after a fight, they pause. They lick their wounds. They rest. But they don’t stay that way forever—because they can’t. Survival requires forward motion.

 

Lions, in particular, teach us a lot:

  • They don’t fight to destroy; they fight to reestablish roles, then move on.

  • When defeated, they roam—seeking new allies, new ground.

  • Injured lions rely on support and instinct to heal.

  • Lionesses, the hunters and nurturers, teach their cubs through hands-on experience and community care.

 

They regroup.

They realign.

They rebuild.

We Can Too.

What if we gave ourselves – and each other – that same grace?

What if failure wasn’t the end of a partnership or idea, but the opening to a deeper understanding?

The Power of Partnership:  Lions Don’t Lead Alone

Even in the wild, no one thrives in isolation. Lionesses hunt in groups. They raise cubs together. They defend their territory in unison.

It’s a reminder that in work, just like in life, resilience is stronger in community.

 

In partnerships:

  • We won’t always agree.

  • Sometimes we misstep, disappoint, or fall short.

  • But strong alliances aren’t built on perfection—they’re built on trust, repair, and shared purpose.

 

When we treat partnerships like a pride—where each role matters, where everyone contributes, and where there’s room to regroup—we create ecosystems that can withstand pressure and still move forward.

Last Word

In my last newsletter, Women Who Have Made a Difference, I celebrated the strength, wisdom, and resilience of everyday women who lead with purpose and create impact in quiet, powerful ways.

 

This month, I invite you to reflect on what happens when things don’t go as planned—when even our best efforts fall short. Failure doesn’t have to define us—it can refine us. Like the lioness, we can regroup, rise, and return stronger—especially when we lean on the power of community and partnership.

 

I'm an author and speaker who helps mission-driven companies build strategic alliances and create sustainable impact. If you’re looking to bolster your partnership ecosystem, let’s connect.

✨Susan


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